Rainy Memphis Weekend | Guest Writer: Abby Wolfzorn


I’ve invited one of my favorite humans to write about our day in Memphis a couple weeks ago. I hope this inspires you to visit this city, or if you live here, to take advantage and enjoy our incredible authentic food and sights.

Abby writes:

You know, Emily and I haven’t known each other that long. I like to think that when people see us, they think, “wow they must have been friends for forever” because that’s how it feels to be with her. Being with her is effortless and I wouldn’t trade our days exploring Memphis for anything. Here was our original plan for my fall break weekend: she would come and pick me up from school and then we’d go camping in our enos, make sandwiches and build fires for tea, and cuddle up in chunky sweaters and some gloves. I got a call a day earlier from her asking me if I wanted to be picked up that night, and spend the night at her house. There was no reason for me to say no (and let’s be honest-even if there was, I’d do everything I could to make sure I could go see Emily). Around 2 hours later, she showed up, and we were on our way to Memphis. Arriving around 10, we went to Avenue and ordered an apple cider tea that tasted like fall in a cup. Once it closed at midnight, we headed off to her cute little apartment as we talked about what we wanted to do with our free day before we went camping. A quick late night stop in Kroger inspired us to buy food to prepare a massive breakfast the next day. Dragon fruit was our little risky addition. I knew it looked pretty, but that’s about it. Looking forward to all our adventures, big and small, I knew it’d be a good next couple of days. Abby-15Once I woke up the next day, all I could think about was the dragon fruit waiting for me – but that wasn’t all. We went downstairs and cut up strawberries, bananas, and the dragon fruit, scrambled eggs, boiled tea, and toasted granola. After documenting our appealing array of colors and flavors, we got to eat it. It was one of those meals that even though you’ve already said “wow this is amazing!” you still feel the need to say it every five minutes, as if the first few times didn’t count. Emily still had to take some photos, so we flipped on Friends and continued to chat and plan out our day. Afterwards, she still needed to edit the photos and catch up on work, so we hopped from “workplace” to “workplace”. After eating lunch at Babaloo, we went to Muddys, famous for their desserts. We sat outside in the cool breeze as we both enjoyed one another’s company in silence while we worked on various tasks. Next, we went to Tamp & Tap which was a very unique sort of coffee shop. I wish I liked coffee, but I don’t, so I got tea. A nice, relaxing, layedback day to store up energy for our CAMPING TRIP! This was the plan: We were going to pack up our stuff and go camping the next night – her car was LOADED with all sorts of food, blankets, sleeping bags, tarps, ropes, enos, you name it. We could not have fit another person in the car… I could feel the camping trip was already going to be a success, and my mind was at ease when we went to bed.


After the best sleep I’ve had since in college, I woke up to the sound of raindrops on the window. I only appreciated it for a few moments until I remembered this was our camping day. I went downstairs to start breakfast, and when Emily came down later she said, “How do you feel about renting an Air B&B?” I was ALL FOR finding a cute house in a neat area and spending our day doing whatever we wanted, even though it was still disappointing to not go camping. After searching for a while, she remembered her grandparents were out of town. And you know what grandparent’s house means? Forts. With a quick call to her grandma, we had made up our minds to continue exploring Memphis during the day and build the best. Fort. Ever. Once we got to the house. Emily, being queen of spontaneity and fun, quickly mapped out our day full of “must sees” or “must eats” since we are both passionate foodies, you could say.


For breakfast, we went to Arcade, the oldest café in Memphis. Famous for – I’m drooling – sweet potato pancakes. I mean, c’mon. After eating a breakfast of the pancakes, fruit, an omelet, and biscuits, we decided to do some walking. Simply strolling through streets looking for unique doors, neat trees, and whatever else caught our eye. Once we had been walking for a couple hours, we started itching to go thrift shopping. Another shared passion. Goodwill it was. There was nothing standing in our way of trying on every single clothing item there. I mean, wow. If we thought we liked it, it went in the cart. If we knew it had potential, it went in the cart. If it was a Bill Cosby sweater, it DEFINITELY went in the cart. We each had a wardrobe to try on by the end. Talk about productivity.


Emily’s mom gave a call asking what Turkish food I had been missing, and after naming a few dishes, we hung up. Emily said, “we need to go hungry…” Well- she was right. Emily’s mom surprised me with a Turkish FEAST. Soup, salad, pastries, appetizers, rice, beans, and dumplings. Even some Turkish cookies! I think I ate enough to last me until I get to visit in January (plus- I got to take some leftovers). Blaring some Turkish pop music and getting to use some Turkish phrases made me feel like this one house in Memphis was in Ankara. I would’ve been willing to WALK back to Jackson just for these few hours. To top off the end of the night, we had a fort to make. We drove back to her grandparent’s hosue and like two little kids, we ran upstairs and found a closet filled with quilts, pillows, and anything else deemed worthy of our fort. We tossed it over the second floor railing and watched pillows roll down the stairs and sheets flood to the bottom floor. Blankets and sheets were draped over the bed, beside the bed, we used ropes to create an entry way, and Christmas lights were strung. It was simply from a dream. After a late night talk, I had another night of the best sleep I’ve had since college. Waking up? Even better.


Opening my eyes to see twinkling lights, enclosed in this cocoon of a fort made me smile. Memphis is filled with warming places. Every coffee shop, boutique, restaurant, and street had people inside ready to greet us. Passing colorful murals and cute houses makes me want to stay forever. Even though our camping trip didn’t work out, I wouldn’t trade our time for anything. Plus, it just means I’ll have to come back.

Author: admin

Emily is a photographer empowering, serving, and working alongside couples, creatives, non Profits, and humanitarian organizations. Her perspective on life and travel developed during her first 14 years growing up in the middle east, on the coast of the Mediterranean. She seeks to use her time and resources to educate and advocate. Emily has heart for collaboration with other creatives, as well as heart for the those displaced and seeking refuge. She hopes to continue her path to work in humanitarian efforts world wide. Currently, Emily is based in Memphis, TN, USA.

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